Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Whats the right age ?

hey gr8 day in dubai and was settling down in work and almost past mid week and somethin struck me when i was chattin with my friend who recently got married to his school sweetheart , way to go mate !! ( the feeling shuld have been really good)

we were involved in a converstaion when he inqured abt my marriage and i said it might take another 3 years from now on , (till i find someone to love her truly,madly, deeply) which he suggested was too long and blah blah blah... the point here What is the right age to get married ?

with fast moving life style and rapidly shrinking world , is ther a right time to get commited in life , No i would say ther is no right time for getting married at all , people wanted to settle down first in their life and fulfill their commitments in the life before they could thnk abt themselves (typical indian of me, i know ..)

my take is "delaying marriage" is an all-too-commonly-used phrase to describe a non-existent phenomenon. People are getting married when they can get married -- not because they feel they should be married. And that, in my mind, is exactly the right time for them to do it.

The theoretical implications like the moderen day circumstances simply reintates Maslow's pyramid of self actualization is pretty well built, before we embark on such a momentous decision.

late marriages In my opinion; are a sign of maturity, a thoughtful consideration of their circumstances and the desire to develop abilities brought into a marriage -- since both will challenge and serve that relationship from thereon in.

keep the good times rollin dubai
cheers

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